Don't Forget Good Friday
Holy Week’s got us all revved up, eyes locked on Easter Sunday’s sunrise, ready to belt out “He is risen!” But hold the confetti, folks—don’t fast-forward past Good Friday. We treat it like the gloomy pit stop before the victory lap, a day for tissues and hushed voices, where we either wallow in guilt over our sins or mourn Jesus like He’s gone for good. Yes, let’s not sugarcoat it: Good Friday was gory, gruesome, a blood-soaked nightmare of torture and death. But that raw, stomach-churning awfulness? It’s the blazing backdrop that makes the love poured out on that cross burn brighter than a supernova.
That’s where Good Friday isn’t the tragic part of a movie we have to endure to get to the happy ending—it’s a cosmic smackdown. It isn’t about shame or despair. It’s about staring wide-eyed at the cross and seeing Jesus, the sinless King, make a public spectacle of the enemy. This is the day He became sin, took God’s wrath, and ripped the universe’s rulebook to shreds. It’s the day He shouted, “It is finished!”—not as a defeated man, but as a conqueror who just closed the deal on your salvation.
Picture Golgotha: a skull-shaped hill under a black sky, a cross splintered and stained, and Jesus hanging there, naked, His flesh torn by whips studded with bone and metal. Nails, or rather crude, iron spikes, pierce His wrists and feet, each breath a rasp of agony as He lifts Himself to breathe. Blood streams from His thorn-crowned brow. The crowd jeers, soldiers gamble, and His mother weeps. It’s brutal, grotesque, the kind of scene that makes your stomach lurch. This is no clean, church-painting crucifixion—it’s a Roman execution, designed to degrade, to destroy, to make a man less than human. And yet, in this horror, something divine unfolds. The gorier the scene, the louder God’s love screams: This is how much I want you.
Don’t mistake this for defeat. This is Jesus, the spotless Lamb, becoming sin itself (2 Corinthians 5:21). Every ugly thing you’ve ever thought or done, every moment you’ve shoved God aside in favor of something lesser – Jesus took it, wrapped it in His broken body, and nailed to that cross. He was pierced for your screw-ups, crushed for your failures, and by His wounds, you’re healed (Isaiah 53:5). He took the full blast of God’s righteous wrath, becoming the propitiation, or appeasement of that wrath, for your sins (Romans 3:25; 1 John 2:2), so you could stand before God as His beloved. Wow.
When Jesus rasped, “It is finished!” (John 19:30), He wasn’t waving a white flag. He was spiking the football. The debt was paid. Sin was crushed. Shame was overcome. As the spikes pierced Jesus’ wrists, Paul paints a vivid picture: your rap sheet, that long list of failures, was nailed to the cross, canceled for good (Colossians 2:14). The perfect sacrifice—Jesus Himself—had made you perfect forever (Hebrews 10:14). Because the law, that impossible checklist no one could satisfy, Jesus fulfilled it (Matthew 5:17). He became the curse for you, hanging on that tree to redeem you from the law’s demands (Galatians 3:13). And, when His body expired, He goes and sits down at the right hand of God – the work was truly finished, Jesus could rest (Hebrews 10:12). When you rest then in Him, you’re not slaving away to earn God’s approval. It’s already done, signed in His blood.
And the devil? He thought he’d won, grinning as the nails went in. Big mistake. While he was striking Jesus’ heel as the nails impaled Jesus’ feet, the devil’s own head was about to be crushed (Genesis 3:15). And, crushed it was. Colossians 2:15 says Jesus “disarmed the powers and authorities” and “made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross.” He dragged Satan into the spotlight and humiliated him before the cosmos. The cross wasn’t just a sacrifice; it was the ultimate power move, binding the “strong man” (Satan) and plundering his goods (Matthew 12:29), casting Satan out of his kingdom (John 12:31). Evil’s strongest play was exposed as a fraud, and Jesus walked away the King.
Game, set, match.
But the cross did more than dunk on the devil. It obliterated the wall between you and God. When Jesus breathed His last, the temple veil—that massive curtain keeping humanity from God’s presence—tore top to bottom (Matthew 27:51). No more middlemen heading in there once a year, no more barriers. Through Christ, you’ve got a backstage pass to the Father’s throne, not as a stranger, but as a child, adopted and wanted. The cross’s violence tore open that path, proving God’s love would stop at nothing to bring you close.
That’s where Good Friday isn’t just about victory—it’s about love. The cross is the megaphone of God’s heart, screaming, This is how much I love you. The whips, the thorns, the nails—every drop of suffering screams a love so vast, so otherworldly and multi-dimensional that Paul says you need supernatural strength to even grasp it (Ephesians 3:18). Jesus didn’t die to check a box; He died to forgive your sins, heal your brokenness, and show a God who’d rather be torn apart than lose you. The gorier the cross, the crazier the love. It’s the “supreme revelation” of God’s heart, a love that looked at the worst humanity could dish out and said, I’m not going anywhere.
We miss this when we treat Good Friday like a guilt trip. My sin put Him there, we groan, as if our failures caught Jesus by surprise. Newsflash: He knew exactly what He was signing up for and He approached it with joy (Hebrews 12:2). He bore your sins in His body (1 Peter 2:24) not to shame you, but to save you. The cross isn’t a mirror to show your flaws—it’s a window to God’s relentless love. Don’t mourn like the story ends here. The blood, the pain, the horror—they amplify the triumph, making the love that conquered evil shine like a beacon.
This Holy Week, don’t sleep on Good Friday. Don’t slink into church like it’s a wake. Show up ready to marvel. This is the day Jesus became sin so you could be righteous, took the curse so you could have blessing, and loved you through a nightmare to give you eternity. The cross isn’t a tragedy—it’s a throne, soaked in blood, crowned with love. Lift your eyes to that gory hill. See the Savior who turned agony into victory, whose love burned brighter than the darkest suffering. Good Friday isn’t for tears alone—it’s for shouting, for falling on your knees, for celebrating a love that changed everything. Don’t forget it. Don’t skip it. Embrace it. Because is it Good. Very Good.